I'm now having a high fever pain in my eyes and joints :(
Protected sex is not a risk for HIV. Condom protects. The only way to get hiv is from having unprotected vaginal or anal sex (penetrating) or sharing of IV drug needles. So, nothing you write of is at all related to HIV. Scabies have nothing to do with it or any of your throat and runny nose issues. No risk of HIV here.