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What would you do...?
I just had a baby girl 7 months ago via c section.. Yesterday I took 2 home pregnancy test and both were positive. According to my last period, im 6 weeks I do not know what to do... I don't want another baby right now, and I'm scared that my c section hasn't healed and I could have complications. But I dont think i can bring myself to have an abortion... What would y'all would do in this situation.. ?
" it's not his or her fault that you got pregnant " " it's unfair to keep the first baby and not the second " seems like you are guilting to me. Regardless of your opinion there are better ways to say it without being a cow. She needs support not to be belittled
I am not guilting anyone just stating the truth, she asked for opinions, life is not always on your side, I'm not belittling her situation, I'm sure she's having a really hard time. And I'm thinking of the baby who doesn't have any choice and say in this, but she is an adult who can make the decisions. I will always side with the defenseless baby! And I stand by my opinion, whether you think it's idiotic or not it won't change. I wish the best for her and her babies.
I'm sorry,but, while everyone may be entitled to their own opinion there's no reason to guilt someone who is already struggling with a decision into thinking they're a bad person because they had had sex. Everyone's situation is different, birth control may not have been an option or may even have been faulty. The poster was asking for options and advice , not to be bashed for something she's already stressing over. Voice your opinion constructively if you want to be heard and not have your comment be called idiotic. I always defend those I feel are being "picked on" for lack of a better term which is why I posted on this thread in the first place, in direct correlation to your post Hawra
I just wanted to add if it's dangerous for you to have the baby, abortion would be the right decision in my opinion, and just FYI calling other people idiots doesn't make you someone people would want to listen to! Respect other people's opinions! Jeez!!
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