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Debate: is watching porn cheating?
I know everyone has their own opinions, I am curious what you guys think. Is it ok to masturbate watching porn, or is that a form of betraying your significant other? Or is it circumstancial, and up to the people in each individual relationship to decide together?
Just because most guys do it doesn't make it right we have our views and I believe porn is cheating because you are making your wife feel like she is not as good as these women in pictures and videos. I see no difference in a man physically sitting there and watching it happen and on a computer screen. The only difference is with it being online you can hide it easier. The man is searching on the Internet for a sexier lady than his own.
I know that didn't really make much sense but short story cut short porn is cheating it's like looking at someone's bum In th street why would you understand this but if your wife was to be angry at you looking at fully naked women is that okay
Would you find it okay for your wife to watch sexy naked men have sex? It's like looking at another ladies bum with your wife by your side in public.Your girlfriend/wife would be angry about that and you would understand but it's different if it is on a phone or computer screen where another lady your man is admiring is fully naked "Honey it's normal for men to do this I'm not cheating I'm just looking at naked woman and having secret desires for them demoralising women and treating them as sex objects". I believe porn is suggesting in order for the man to feel satisfied they need to search "sexy lady porn" more like "find me a sexier woman than my wife". This is how a woman and young girls Feel. I am only 16 yet these are my views. I think porn is just as bad as having intercourse with someone else but your partner because, because watching these videos or looking at these images makes your man think "wow I want to have sex with her" because the sexual pleasure takes over your mind. So why is porn okay if it makes your man feel separated from you for that length of time he is looking at porn? And I understand some women are just as bad but the majority of comments are about men watching porn.
I fidn it strange that it has become acceptable to watch peoples lives get ruined and sexually degraded while we touch ourselves and make our partners feel hurt..all for what???
I agree it is degrading, my husband too is addicted. I have told him how I feel, he lies about it even when I have placed a recording device in the bedroom while I go to work, and had webwatcher installed on his phone, tablet and computer. He does not have sex with me, he threatens me, calls me all kinds of degrading stuff and still refuses to admit it when he is caught red handed. he even tried telling me it was a movie he was watching on t.v.. I cant afford to leave and he wont leave. As long as I keep my f.... pie hole shut I am safe, I am sick and tired of this. I work full time hours, he's retired he has been doing this our whole marriage but I was too stupid to catch on until 15 years ago, we have been married 30.
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