Vaginal Swelling

[iDECT]

I Am 16 And When I Was Little ii Would Rub My Vagina Against Objects. I Kno Its Stupid But Yer..And Its Now Swollen And Im Scared Too Get Too Close Too Any Ladds Incase They Want Sex. I Feel Really Uncofterble Around Boys As My Friends Lost Their Virginity At About 13 And I Yet Still Have To Loose Mine;Will I Ever Go Normal Again?

[neetsiepk]

It is normal that you used to rub your vagina against objects because you just found your erotic spot very young and it felt good.  If it's swollen, you may need to see a doctor, but don't be afraid.  It may just be an irritation from rubbing it.  And ladybug44 is right, stay away from the lads as long as you can, because they just want sex, not love.  When you get older, you will meet Mr. Right, and hopefully you can wait to have sex after you are married.  If not, at least when you are in a committed relationship as an adult.  Sex is for adults and God meant it to be for married couples.  He meant it to feel good, and if you wait, it will be the best thing in the world.  Good luck.

[ladybug44]

Sweetie, please don't mess around like that!  And don't be in such a hurry to lose your virginity.  Bad things can happen when you do!  There are all kinds of disease you can get; not to mention you could get pregnant!  What would you do?  And please, please don't say you would get an abortion.  That is not an option!  Sex is meant for marriage - God designed us and calls us to be 'holy'.....If you can't talk to your parents about this subject, then go see a youth pastor or a Christian friend who would listen and give you godly advice.  You should be checked out by a physican.  Don't wait, just do it.....

by:  ladybug44