Also I am a 24 year old
College student
No STDs
In monogamous relationship of 5 yrs
No birth control
No children
Sexually active ( but less and less because of the pain from these tears)
Help me!! What are ways to counter the pain from these tears? I have tried many things. But none seem to work. I get them quite often and it's having a really bad affect on my relationship of 5 years. We can barely have sex because the tears make it extremely uncomfortable and painful. The ob/gyn has perscribed some things that haven't worked. Now she just tells me to use vasaline or ky to make it less painful during sex but that only lasts a few minutes before the pain comes back. What can I do?
Sitting in a salt water Sitz (add salt in lukewarm water in a basin and sit in it) for about 15 mins to 20 mins can make a huge difference. It helps heal fast & is a big itch reliever as well! From whatever i've read & know, usually such blisters, cuts or even pimple like sores show close to ovulation time & are due to the acid level (pH) changes happening in the vagina. Drinking lots of water can help. Betadine ointment helped me a lot. If it persists, try seeing a doc who is free to discussing the above said possibilities. Most of them simply think it's herpes. Most importantly, we need to keep our cool & quit worrying! :)
DEAR.. anyone really,
I am sixteen years old and i have the same problem as most of you. I have my period, but i have never had sex. I have one cut and occasional itching, not constant. It burns though and is irritating. It doesn't hurt to pee but it is irritating. This just happened the other day, and i have no idea if it will go away or if it is serious. I hate the doctors and afraid to tell my parents. I wanted to see if anyone could HELP me. I really don't want to go to the doctors, but i figure i will have to eventually. And tell my parents.. I just wanted some input and maybe some suggestions to help, especially the irritation. PLEASE CAN SOMEONE HELP ME??!!?!??!?! PLEASE.
Hi ladies. I am so very happy to have found this site. Following a termination of pregnancy 5 years ago, I was treated with antibiotics (at least 6 packs) due to a high risk of infection. The thrush like symptoms started soon after this and have got worse over the years. Of late, I have suffered from constant tearing of my vagina and anus. I have thick discharge sometimes dark brown *which worries me the most. I have seen several specailsits including a recurring thrush/bv clinic in London. They all say the same and advise me to go on antibiotics to clear the bv. In my opinion antibiotcs were the cause of all of this and therefore I cannot take their advice seriously. My periods are normal but unfortunately the cracks, dicharge and itching are worst 2 weeks after the first day of my period and during my period. I dread these times of the month. Sex has only recently become an issue as my vagina has completely dryed out :( What can I do? I do everthing by the book and still NO such luck. It will be the end of me!!
Try using a lubricant like repHresh every day for a week then 2-3 times a week as needed. It is a more expensive lube but it lasts and will help maintain moisture in that area thus stopping the cracks. Also use additional lube durning sex since the friction is likely to cause more if there is not enough LASTING wetness... Don't be afraid to re-apply as needed. Also only use water or silicone lubes durning sex and then the repHresh daily. It will help!!!